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How To Be Confident – The Ultimate Guide

By Veikko Arvonen July 23, 2021Confidence

Many people today struggle with their confidence and self-esteem. Especially lots of teenagers and people in their 20s wanted to be confident, but the modern world isn't always the easiest…

Alpha mindset – 7 attractive traits to master

By Veikko Arvonen June 30, 2021Status And Hierarchy

When it comes to climbing up in social hierarchies, your mindset is one of the most important assets you can have. Therefore mastering your alpha mindset is crucial if you're…

Before reading on, figure out if something is lurking in your mind that causes insecurity. Be honest with yourself and don't be shamed. It's important to be completely aware of your problems so you can deal with them. Dealing with your inner shit Now that you've found the roots of your insecurities, it's time to deal with them. Whatever your problem is, I want you to understand that everybody has problems and flaws. People just don't like to show them, and it's easy to get stuck inside your head. Especially today when social media is displaying the top 1% of everyone's lives. One thing that confident people do is that they're secure with their flaws. A great piece of advice for an insecure person is to do the same. You'll have to accept whatever negative experiences you've had in your life and realize that they don't make you a worse person. You can't change your past but you can change the present. Rather than dwelling in your insecurity, take action to fix it. Whatever problem or flaw you have, admit it to yourself. It doesn't make you a bad human because everybody has flaws. Changing the way you think Maybe you've been bullied for several years and those assholes have destroyed your confidence. But think about it, does it tell more about you or more about them? Bullies and haters are the most pathetic losers ever because they put weaker people down to feel better about themselves. Those kinds of losers aren't worthy of your mental energy, so don't let them determine you. Maybe you think that you're a loser because they bully you, but they are the real losers with most problems. What if you've struggled with other kinds of problems like depression or abusive parents. Rather than finding it embarrassing, think about how strong you've become when you had to deal with them. Nobody chooses to have those kinds of problems, so it's not your fault. Everybody who judges people because of those things don't know what the fuck they're talking about. One more example. Maybe you're overweight and envy the jocks at your high school. Again, shallow traits like fitness don't make anyone a worse person or determine their worth. Anyone who compares their strengths to your flaws is the insecure little kid. Do you get my advice for an insecure person? You have to figure out what causes your insecurity, accept that you have flaws just like everybody else, and focus on the present.

Advice For An Insecure Person – How To Transform Your Life

By Veikko Arvonen June 24, 2021Confidence

Confidence and dealing with insecurities are one of my favorite topics to write about. The reason I like to share advice for an insecure person is that I've overcome similar…

How to be tougher – 6 habits for mental toughness

By Veikko Arvonen June 14, 2021Status And Hierarchy

How to be tougher - 6 habits for mental toughnes Learning how to be tough and mentally strong is important if you want to live your best life. When you…

Alpha Male Body Language – 5 Fundamentals EVERY GUY Should Know

By Veikko Arvonen June 8, 2021Status And Hierarchy

Did you know that you can make yourself more attractive, respected, and convincing by just changing your body language? Today, I'm sharing how you can do this by mastering an…

Alpha male in 2021 – The ultimate guide

By Veikko Arvonen May 25, 2021Status And Hierarchy

Chances are you've heard the term alpha male before. In this article, I'll cover what an alpha male (or female) really is, break down some common misconceptions, and investigate what…

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9 Dating tips to transform your life

By Veikko Arvonen May 16, 2021Miscellaneous

9 dating tips to transform your life Today I'd like to review 9 dating tips to fundamentally change your dating game and increase both your results and happiness in general.…

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